The habit is mainly about how to treat yourself in different attitudes.
There are 4 types of attitudes you can use in order to succeed in something
Win- Lose
This type of people are competitive, and they try to get the pleasure of being above the rest.
Lose- Win
These people take blame on them, no matter what happens. They do everything for others to win and do not think about themselves.
Lose- Lose
This type is the worst one. This is when you say that you do not care what happens to you as long as your brother fails. So both sides fail
Win-Win
This is the type that the book i trying to advice. It is a belief that everyone can win, which means stand for what is right and at the same time respect others opinions and not hurt others.
When you start to use the tactic in your life two things appear- Competing and Comparing. Both of them have dark and sunny sides. The sunny side of Competing is when you compete against yourself, whereas the dark side is when you use competing in order to place yourself above others. The sunny side of Comparing is when you compare yourself to your own potential. This means that it is good when you compare who you were yesterday and who you are now. The dark side is when you compare yourself to others. You can become disappointed and frustrated or maybe pompous and selfish.
There are 4 types of attitudes you can use in order to succeed in something
Win- LoseThis type of people are competitive, and they try to get the pleasure of being above the rest.
Lose- Win
These people take blame on them, no matter what happens. They do everything for others to win and do not think about themselves.
Lose- Lose
This type is the worst one. This is when you say that you do not care what happens to you as long as your brother fails. So both sides fail
Win-Win
This is the type that the book i trying to advice. It is a belief that everyone can win, which means stand for what is right and at the same time respect others opinions and not hurt others.
When you start to use the tactic in your life two things appear- Competing and Comparing. Both of them have dark and sunny sides. The sunny side of Competing is when you compete against yourself, whereas the dark side is when you use competing in order to place yourself above others. The sunny side of Comparing is when you compare yourself to your own potential. This means that it is good when you compare who you were yesterday and who you are now. The dark side is when you compare yourself to others. You can become disappointed and frustrated or maybe pompous and selfish.
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